Learning martial arts means self-assurance, not arrogance. Your confidence should make you the meekest, most humble person on Earth. If you are secure in your techniques, nothing anyone can do has negative meaning. It is impossible for them to annoy you because you know they cannot harm you. You know how to fight, but you do not exercise that ability unless threatened with bodily harm. You remain free from violence. It is not the martial artist who is dangerous, rather the weakling who, insecure, must constantly prove himself. His weakness and ignorance make him arrogant.