Traditional martial arts instruction isn't about fighting and violence. Instead it emphasizes the development of self-esteem, self-discipline, focus and concentration, physical fitness and competency in self defense. In other words, martial arts is about becoming a better human being.
As soon as you become a martial arts student, you join a community that works together toward improved physical strength and stamina, better focus and concentration, greater self discipline, competency in self defense and, most importantly, increased self confidence.